That's true, and that's why I don't bother with any kind of filter sealing grease.
If you get it right, just the oiled filter pressed down against the sealing edge of the airbox will seal just fine and dandy.
If you don't get it right and have the foam filter slip off the filter cage while installing, or install the filter and filter cage a bit crooked, you can have a leak.
If you want to see what you are trying to achieve with where the filter cage and airbox meet, test fit the bare cage (without the foam filter) into the airbox.