OK, so here was the problem. When I pulled off the stock exhaust, I left on something that looks like the stock exhaust adapter. It was stuck on pretty well and had to give it a good twist with the vice grips to get it loose.
Here it is back on the stock mid-pipe:
The stock header after removing the stock adapter:
The FMF adapter for the stock header:
FMF adapter on the stock header (test fit ):
After putting it together (as discussed on other threads, need to pull the FMF adapter backwards about a quarter inch to get the mounting bolts to line up). Red color is high temp silicone:
Also as discussed on other threads, the mid-pipe bolt supplied by FMF is just a couple threads too short to grab the captive nut on the pipe. After trying for close to an hour to get it to fit, I went to my local Home Depot and got a longer bolt. No regular bolts available, so I got an allen key bolt and used the unused stock exhaust washer.
Here is the size and threading in case you need one. Same size and threading for a regular or allen bolt:
After getting past the first hurdle and the mid-pipe bolt hurdle, it was simple. Haven't ridden it yet, but it sounds good in the garage.